We cannot judge our appearance by hotness. We cannot be rude to ourselves by doubtful.
I'm down-to-earth guy however, I have been-down to-somebody's heart before. Don't know how are they going through. No matter disability and disadvantage you have, you are still normal as human being. You can see advantages and disadvantages in all humans beside poor attributes. They (advantages and disadvantages) are same as the benefits in whole life around us.